We finished day 8 last week with my 11 year old son. We have had amazingly great days since. He has been more compliant, not irritated about anything (usually irritated about everything). He did school work without complaining (he would usually fight me about everything and it would take forever to do school). I’ve turned the chill kit on and walked out of the room during meltdowns and he calmed down on his own ( AMAZING!!). This program has changed our life. The journal is definitely key. We started listening to the program last spring but didn’t work on the journal and we didn’t see progress.